Looking for a Reward

Matthew 6:1-18

Have you ever heard of the humblebrag? Listen to this explanation, courtesy Tim Challies, pastor of Grace Fellowship Church in Toronto, Ontario. “Of all the words coined in response to the realities of this digital world, of all the words recently added to the dictionary, humblebrag must be among the best. According to the Macmillan dictionary, a humblebrag is “a statement in which you pretend to be modest but which you are really using as a way of telling people about your success or achievements.” It is bragging in the guise of humility, putting a thin veneer of humble over a clear expression of proud. And it seems to be an integral part of an effective social media presence.”


Here are some excellent methods of humblebragging:

Tell others what you own. “When I bought this Ferrari no one warned me I’d get pulled over all the time.”

Make sure they know who you know. “Bumped into my dear friend Tom Hanks at the Academy Awards tonight. He’s awesome.”

Remind them that you’re popular. “Preached the worst sermon of my life but still got a sore hand from signing all those Bibles afterward.”

Hide it in a question. “Is anyone else going to be at the White House tonight? It would be great to meet up…” Or, “Does anyone know if you can claim a yacht as a home office?

Declare your humility. Try beginning a conversation with the words, “I’m humbled that…” and follow it with your milestone or accomplishment. Example: “Humbled that my album hit the Billboard Top 100.”

Feign embarrassment or awkwardness. “That awkward moment when you ask Jim Gaffigan to sign a book…and he asks you to sign yours.”

GrumbleHumble. Try wrapping your brag in a grumble, using a complaint to let people know how awesome you are. “I hate it when you get profiled on 60 Minutes and they mispronounce your name.”

We all know that Jesus expects his followers to be humble, but if we don’t toot our own horns, who is going to toot them? And especially if we have a social media presence and we need to let everyone else know how good we are and all the good things we have done, but we know that we’re supposed to be humble, the humblebrag presents a perfect solution. Brag about it, all the while trying to pretend that we’re not bragging.

Two weeks ago, we read from earlier in Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount where Jesus called us to be the light of the world, a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. Jesus said (and I quote), “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16). How can we effectively light the world if the world doesn’t see what we’re doing? In fact, Jesus went so far as to tell his followers to do their good deeds in public. What good deeds would those be? In Jesus’ time, there were three basic aspects of Jewish piety: almsgiving (in other words, giving to the poor), prayer, and fasting. These were the three most basic things that were expected of God’s people. So if you were a good Jew, and consequently, if you were a good Jesus-follower, these were the most basic good deeds that it was expected that you did.

And if you didn’t do these basic good deeds, one could even infer from your refusal that you weren’t really one of God’s people. This is what James was getting at in the Book of James, chapter two, you know, the “faith without works is dead” chapter. James says: Now someone may argue, “Some people have faith; others have good deeds.” But I say, “How can you show me your faith if you don’t have good deeds? I will show you my faith by my good deeds.” (James 2:18) So there it is – if you want to prove your faith, do good works. Of course, those good works would start with almsgiving, prayer, and fasting.

So we have precedent for not only doing good deeds in public, but for doing them specifically for others to see. And in this same context, then, we hear Jesus beginning a new section by saying, “Be careful not to do your ‘acts of righteousness’ in front of others, to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.” (Matthew 6:1)

Now, there is a reason why Bible translators have included a paragraph break between verses 1 and 2. That is because this verse provides the context and the guidelines for all three of the following sections. In fact, I was planning on doing a three-part mini-series on this section, one part on almsgiving, one on prayer, and one on fasting, but, much like last week’s installment, where all of Jesus’ teachings on “you have heard it said…, but I say…” are related to heart attitude as opposed to simply avoiding the outward sinful behavior, these three sections are joined by Jesus’ command. Furthermore, contextual evidence backs this up; Jesus repeats these phrases: “I tell you the truth, they have received their reward,” and “your Father, who sees what is done in secret.”

So Jesus is saying, “When you do the basic things that good Christians do, if you do them in front of other people to be seen by them, God won’t reward you.” You might say that he’s saying, “If you do what I told you to do, God won’t reward you.” And that’s almost right. Because Jesus is taking on hypocrisy here. The previous section was less concerned with following the letter of the law and more concerned with the condition of the heart of the follower, and now Jesus is taking it another step. Later (in Matthew 15:3 and following), Jesus confronts the Pharisees about their religious acts and traditions that they used to justify disobeying God’s commands. He quotes Isaiah 29:13 at them: calling them hypocrites. “You hypocrites! Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you: ‘These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. They worship me in vain; their teachings are merely human rules.’” (Matthew 15:7-9)

The term “hypocrite” came from the Greek word for stage actor. Unlike today’s culture of celebrity actors, the Greek stage actor was not considered a proper public persona. In other words, you didn’t want people to know you were a stage actor, because the inference was, if you wore a mask as your occupation, pretending you were who you really weren’t, then how could you be trusted elsewhere? So Jesus here is dealing with the motives behind so-called Christian actions…

The big question Jesus is asking is: what is your motivation? It’s not about doing good deeds in public, it’s about the motivation behind it. Why do you do it? There have been times when I have been motivated simply by my office or position. “What is a pastor supposed to do?” or “I’d better do this, because if I don’t, it will reflect poorly on me or on my church.” That sounds like decent motivation, but it’s really driven by people-pleasing. What it comes down to is that when I get into that pattern of thinking, it’s that I want the recognition that comes with doing good things.

Many Christians give for the recognition – otherwise they might not want one of those little plaques saying they gave it. Others give for the tax write-off.

Jesus addresses these Pharisees who sound the trumpet so everyone notices their good deeds, those who pray loudly so everyone sees them, and those who brag about their fasts so that everyone knows they are fasting. This raises the issue: there are times when doing Christian charity is not enough. Later in this same sermon, Jesus will address those hypocrites who claim to be Christians but do not do his will, “Many will say to me on that day,Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles? Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evil-doers!’” (Matthew 7:22-23)

What Jesus is saying is that, while obedience is important, our motivation is even more important. Do we do all of this for the recognition that comes with it? Sometimes we act as if God is bound by magic rules – in other words, if we do all the right things, then we force God to act. This isn’t Christianity; it’s magic. It’s saying a spell or performing an incantation. And that, plain and simple, is not Christianity. This is why Jesus blasts the way the hypocrites pray: they think if they use all the right words, God will be forced to answer their prayers. I remember as a child, there were people who prayed and people who prayed. The ones who used King James English in their prayers… they had to be holy. I remember hearing another kid my age praying, “beseeching” God, using “Thee” and “Thou” in his prayer – man, he had to be holy. God would have to answer him.

Jesus is saying there is no magic formula to pray. Even the Lord’s Prayer isn’t a magic formula; it should inform and teach us how to pray – I’m not going to go into the specifics of the Lord’s Prayer today, because that is at least a five-week sermon series. But here, Jesus is talking about our motivation for prayer. What he isn’t talking about is whether or not we should pray in public. I’ve heard people invoke this scripture when we celebrate the National Day of Prayer in the community, claiming that Jesus says we shouldn’t pray in public. That’s not what Jesus is saying, though. Jesus is saying, “Don’t pray in public to be seen by people.” There’s a big difference.

If you do your righteous acts “to be seen by people” then being seen by people is your big reward. And what kind of reward is that really? I mean, if I’m picking out a reward, having people know that I can pray is a pretty sad one. Having people think I’m so righteous is a lame reward.

Jesus never says we should abandon these righteous acts. Just because we shouldn’t give to charity simply for the human recognition or tax write-off doesn’t mean we don’t give. Just because we don’t pray in public for the recognition doesn’t mean we don’t pray – like when they took out mandatory rote prayer in schools, that doesn’t mean that Christians can’t or shouldn’t pray in school! In fact, it probably means you should pray more in school! Just because you shouldn’t brag to everyone how you are fasting doesn’t mean you should not fast.

The honest truth is that our motivation is naturally incredibly selfish. We want people to know that we are good at praying. There is something flattering to our egos when people come to us with “your prayers really work” – but it’s not about that. One of my favorite prayer stories was from another church, where we had a special service focused on healing, and we ended with healing prayers. I was the associate pastor, and the senior pastor asked me to pray for him. He had a whole lot of aches and pains, especially from an incident where he’d slipped on the ice and landed on his shoulder. So I prayed for him. The next Sunday, he told me that my prayers didn’t work, that I didn’t have the gift of healing. His shoulder hurt more than it had before I’d prayed for him. But then he mentioned in his sermon that he’d been out digging fencepost holes all day Saturday… I still think that was pretty funny. But this is what I took from that incident: I’m glad not to have the gift of healing; now, if someone is healed after I pray for them, the glory goes to God, not me.

Which leads me to the next point. Jesus is not only talking about almsgiving, prayer, and fasting here. These are the examples he uses because they were considered to be the basic acts of piety for Jews of his time. But Jesus is talking about everything. What is your motivation for singing in the choir? Is it because you know everyone needs to hear your voice? I know a church where they broadcast their services live on the radio, and this one woman knew where the congregation microphones were and she would go sit right under that mic so her voice would go out over the air during congregational singing.

In our Sunday School class, we’ve had multiple discussions about how we best honor the Sabbath – but do we honor the Sabbath just so people see us not doing whatever, or do we honor the Sabbath to glorify God and to enjoy his presence?

Would we still give our tithes and offerings if we never got a tax statement? Would we give to others if nobody else knew about it?

So here’s the next issue: many in this church are not this type. Most of you would rather walk out than parade your good deeds in front of the church or the community. The sad thing, however, is that many Christians aren’t even doing these acts of righteousness. So instead of avoiding doing them for the wrong reasons, they end up not doing them at all. The Bible does not tell us not to give to the poor, not to pray, or not to fast. In fact, Jesus is inferring that we will do all those things; he says “when you give” and “when you pray” and “when you fast” not “if.”

But again, what it all comes down to is motivation. What is the motivation for giving to the needy? Jesus says that there is a way to give that ensures that our Father will reward us.

Do it in secret.

What is the motivation for prayer? Certainly not to be seen; we pray to develop our relationship with God, and so we pray in secret. We don’t babble or use stilted language. We ask God to supply our needs, even as God already knows what we need. We ask for God’s guidance and deliverance. We ask for the power to forgive and for forgiveness.

What is the motivation for fasting? It is all about our relationship with God. Many times we get distracted by all kinds of things – food, drink, our TV shows, social media and so forth. When we fast, we give up something that has a significant place in our lives in order to concentrate on God. But when we do it, do it in secret.


God is most interested in who you are when no else one is looking. So, who are you? Do you even know? Have you been just doing what is expected for so long that you don’t even know who you are? And is the person you are worthy of God’s reward? If not, then it’s time for transformation. The good news is that if the Holy Spirit lives within you, you have the means for that transformation. 

Comments

Big Mama said…
Excellent message!! Thank you so much. I needed to hear it!

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